When did the concept of dating begin
Maybe he changes his lifestyle, stops hanging out with certain friends, or changes his habits.
MORE: 15 Undeniable Signs You Aren’t Over Your Ex It seems innocent enough, but over time the guy begins to starve for whatever it was he got from the things he gave up.
When we believe something that is out of alignment with reality, we suffer…
To wrap up this point: Most people can’t recognize when they believe something impossible, nor can they see the false belief as the source for all of the suffering…
It changes the guy and, in turn, changes the relationship. Hook up with a bunch of girls and have a series of flings.
As a result, the relationship usually suffers and, in the case of this example, ends. I mean, think about it – no chance of love, no chance of commitment (and therefore, no risk of falling into being a way he doesn’t want to be and doing things he doesn’t want to do) and plenty of plausible external validation that the guy is a “worthy man” since he’s getting so much ass.
No discussion was going to fix things, no clarity was to be had – it would have just been an emotional toilet for both of us.
In the same regard, when a relationship ends, it is much much harder for a guy to go back and discuss and revisit and talk through and explain, etc. MORE: 5 Hidden Signs Your Ex Still Loves You (Even If He Says He Doesn’t) In fact, guys like to keep their emotional spectrum focused on a tight range of emotions – somewhere between amusement and contentedness.
So any interaction that a guy knows will bring him out of that sweet range of emotions is an interaction he’s going to do everything he can to avoid.
Every guy has a set of core values for who he is, what he stands for, and what he really wants out of life.
Sometimes in a relationship, a guy will really, really love a girl and may start to compromise these core values.
When a person (male or female) realizes that only they themselves can be responsible for their emotions, actions, and reactions…